Valentine's
Day is the most romantic day of the year but how can you make it
your sexiest too? The sexperts from Sh! Women's Erotic Emporium,
who have been advising women and couples for almost 20 years,
share their tips on how to get the best out of your sex life...
How to Have Earth-Shaking Orgasms
Think BBC - Build-up, Breathing and
Continuity. Quickies can deliver instant gratification, just
like a fast-food burger can quell hunger, but for a real feast
you need courses and the longer the build up, the better the
orgasm. Breathing is also important. Try to breathe evenly and
deeply as it will allow you to really relax and let go. Finally
most of us need uninterrupted stimulation to have blockbuster
orgasms. Play around with different sensations and positions
during build-up, but once into the home run, don't deviate.
Pre-climax pleasure that is continuous and consistent is key to
coming like a sledgehammer!
How to Fly Solo
The ways women masturbate are many fold and
there is no right or wrong way to enjoy a session of solo
pleasure. Whether your muff-job involves fingers, toys, shower
on full blast, washing machine on slow spin, legs spread or
thighs clenched together, the key to a fabulous time is to
relax, to fantasise and to keep exploring new ways to pleasure
yourself. A few drops of lubricant (never baby oil or
moisturizer, ladies, unless you relish an itch in your ditch)
will heighten sensitivity. Reading erotica is a great way to
source fantasy-material if your imagination needs a kick-start
or if weaving a sexy scenario in your over-worked, multi-tasking
brain seems like just too much hard work. For women who find
orgasms illusive or absent without leave then a vibrator can
really help.
How to Ask New Things of Your Lover
Use words that involve your lover and sexy
suggestions are more likely to be embraced with baited breath.
Saying I'd love it if we (insert your desired fantasy!)
conveys togetherness whereas I would love to … can be
misconstrued as desperate or dissatisfied. Whispering is easier
than square in the eye. Make your suggestions in a romantic
situation but not in bed or during sex, unless you are confident
of an instant uptake! Visiting a (female-friendly!) sex shop
together can be a fabulous way to explore new possibilities,
discover more about your partner's desires and perhaps pick out
some sensual playthings that turn you both on.
How to spice up your sex life
Long-term lovers naturally get into a
groove. Sex calms down after new couple fever and life
takes over. Add children, mortgages and the weekly shop into the
mix and it's easy to get into a sexual rut. Anything that is
habitual will loose its thrill, so the way to spice things up is
to break the routine. If you always get jiggy in the missionary
position on a Friday night, then ravish your lover on a Tuesday
morning in the en-suite. Send a sex-text. Introduce a sex toy.
Have a massage date. Approach spicing-up as a fun and playful
thing to do, not as a comment on the state of your sex life, as
pressure to perform can be a libido-killer. Keeping it light and
surprising will ensure it will be spicy and hot!
To ensure you have a sexy valentines, Sh! is
offering half price on:
-
Sh! Bullet Vibrator ( with coupon
£5.50)
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Lurveheart Ring (with coupon
£4.50)
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Lush Lubricant (with coupon
£5)
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Lush Massage Oil (with coupon
£4)
Enter val12 in coupon box at
checkout. ONLINE ONLY One coupon per customer. Valid until Feb
14th 2012
Congratulations
to Sh! Women's Erotic Emporium that was voted by Erotic Trade
Only as the Most Innovative Retailer.
